“Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy.” ~Brian Tracy
Inspirational Words About Self Confidence
When nobody else sees your worth, supports your cause, or believes in your destiny; what do you do? Do you give up, give in and accept their limited view of you? Do you see yourself through their eyes? If so, I must ask, “Where is your self confidence?”
It is human nature to desire the support and approval of others. For this reason, many people feel about as confident as others “make” them feel. Today’s inspirational words are meant to encourage unshakable self confidence.
Self confidence is what allows you to keep going when you’re weary, to start over in another direction when you reach a dead end, to stand up again no matter how many times you’ve been knocked down. It is a belief in yourself that doesn’t vary based on anything outside of you.
Self confidence isn’t something you can purchase or borrow. You can’t get it from mom or dad, teachers, ministers, spouses, or even best friends. It’s home grown. It is created, fine-tuned, and cultivated by none other than you.
There will come a time, maybe even multiple times, in your life when you are the only person who “gets it.” It may be an idea, a plan, a dream, or just an unpopular decision. Maybe you’ll see a door where everyone else sees a wall. Maybe you’ll step outside of the box that houses the comfort level of those around you. Whatever the case may be, do not forget who you are and what you stand for.
When nobody believes in you, believe in yourself. When nobody acknowledges your value, value yourself. Instead of awaiting validation from others, listen to your Inner Guidance. Stand tall, oozing enough self-confidence to push yourself through seemingly insurmountable obstacles.
As much as I encourage you to look within yourself for confidence, I understand the challenge ahead. It is wonderful to have others on your side, so there is nothing wrong with desiring that. Being understood is something that we all crave. But sometimes, the confidence and reassurance of others comes at a hefty price. Sometimes, gaining approval means sacrificing your individuality or following a path that is not yours.
In such cases, you have a choice. You can choose to see yourself as incapable, your goal as unattainable, your means as insufficient. Or you can choose self-confidence by deciding to believe in your own power, abilities, and self-worth. What will you choose?
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Nea,
Thank you for the wonderful message you’ve shared.
For me, encountering trials and tribulations could sometimes knocked down one’s self-confidence. I too felt about that many times but “giving-up” is not my word because I know I am the only one who can solve my problems and knows the answers to my questions.
Thanks so much for sharing, Eric. You’re on the right track for sure.
it is a problem many people, and indeed difficult to overcome, must really want and act to eliminate them. not just a wish.
I highly agree with Eric.
The only way you can know the true test of a man/woman is to find out how they react when things are at there absolute worst. Some people react in a positive manner others react by giving up. In order to be successful in life you have to be willing to go all out no matter how bad things have gotten.
Hi Nea. Something else to think about is that I find people are drawn to authentic and confident people. So one of the best ways to get approval of others, which while understandable is not as important as approval of yourself, is to actually do your own thing and be your own self. Confidence is contagious.
What an awesome point to add Stephen. People are indeed drawn to self confidence, so it’s a win-win situation. Thanks for adding that!
Dear Nea, Your blogs are very inspirational.They remind me of Swami vivekananda’s inimitable speeches and writings.Your blogs really inspire us to do the best for us by us.You are true.We are the makers of our own destiny.Nobody will shape our future.We are responsible for what we are.There is God in us.He can do wonders for us.We should know the strength of our own God.You need to complimented on your inspirational blogs.I hope you read my poems and writing in english on TEACHING ENGLISH.BRITISH COUNCIL.ORG.UK besides my ENGLISH MONGERBLOGSPOT.COM
yours lovingly,
JVL NARASIMHA RAO
INDIA
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